Hustlerpreneur

On January 12, 2017 By travelsforchocolateIn fashion, UncategorizedLeave a comment

I know that most of my blog posts are about fashion but just to be clear, while I hope my blog posts bring you value, these posts are truly to get my thoughts put on “paper” and to tell myself things I need to hear.

My focus has been on massive action. I don’t feel like I’ve produced the amount of action that I possibly can, so I always feel like I need to work harder. I need to produce this action because I have goals that I can’t describe with words. But if you have ever described yourself as entrepreneurial, you probably know what I’m talking about.

There is a voice in me that tells me I’m not average and I’m meant for more.

This “voice” has created an obsessive drive that energizes me to a point that I operate on 4-5 hours of sleep every day unless I drug myself to death with horse tranquilizers (no joke, just ask my boyfriend). As I typed that, I understand it might not be healthy but I have no other choice. My soul isn’t satisfied unless I do as much as I can, with the time I have, to get to the next level.

When I’m out, maybe at the grocery store or something, everyone seems like they are satisfied with working at their 9-5 Monday through Friday. They look forward to the weekend and a case of their favorite beer. Not me. ( I only drink tequila)

I don’t like taking time off from working, there is so much to do. I don’t look forward to Friday, I look forward to Mondays because “business people” are finally back to work and available to communicate. I don’t even like using the word “work” because I’m not working. I’m doing something else, I’m striving, building, growing, hustling, grinding, or pushing, not working. I know it’s work but not in the sense that average people use the word. I was recently at dinner with some new folks and was explaining this very point, I love what I do so therefore its not “work”.

Whatever it is in your life, find something you feel so strongly about that you will do anything it takes to achieve the next level of greatness. Then strive for the next level. If you don’t, what are you living for? What will you be known for? Will you be known for being average, predictable, or something else that’s insulting?

Average sucks! Make a decision not to be average. Do something that the universe will notice.

“It’s better to be ridiculous than absolutely boring”

The Perfect Moto Jacket

On December 26, 2016December 26, 2016 By travelsforchocolateIn fashion, Uncategorized2 Comments

BLANK NYC Easy Rider’ Faux Leather Moto Jacket

Finding the perfect moto jacket for fall can be a bit of a challenge. With the variety of options available now you don’t have to settle anymore. You can find the one I’m wearing here at Nordstrom for $98. It comes in 4 different colors so you can even be like me and get all 4 (no self control).

The motorcycle jacket (moto for short) is a classic piece that will never go out of style, this is the reason it gets reinvented every year. But no matter the fabric, color, or shape when buying a moto jacket make sure it stills has the essence of a motorcycle jacket and fits your figure perfectly.

One of the things you need to consider when shopping for a moto jacket is the front closure. A jacket with a diagonal zipper is great for slimming your waist. A jacket with a straight up and down zipper is perfect for bustier women it’ll streamline your figure. If you want to create the illusion of curves then you need to find one with a cascade front. I’m petite so all three of these styles work for my small frame.

You can wear a moto jacket an endless amount of ways; this is the reason you should invest in one that will last you years. I’m wearing mine with a Cascade Cardi from Free People for $128.

However you decide to wear your moto jacket, just be sure to wear it with a smile.

Date night details

On December 8, 2016 By travelsforchocolateIn Uncategorized3 Comments

Date nights are some of my favorite nights. Although my boyfriend and I eat dinner together most nights, it is always fun to ditch the work out clothes or sweats and get dressed up and go to dinner.

If you’re anything like me, you’re constantly at a loss for new and interesting date ideas. Seriously, we love dinner and a movie as much as the next girl but every now and then you need something a little more exciting. Which is why date night is always a big deal for us women. Whether you’re going on a first date or 100th date with your boyfriend or husband, what you wear is always big deal.

Since winter nights tend to be freezing I always opt for Ponte pants from White house Black Market. This is one of those pairs of pants that you can pair so many different ways and wear on so many different occasions.

dn2 — Tutulle Silky Satin by Christian Louboutin

This Nicole Vienna Soir N79 Mesh watch is now on sale for 30% off the entire month of December. No discount code needed.

dn1 — Chanel Chevron Lambskin Double Flap Shoulder Bag

All I need is a red jacket with some zippers…

On December 3, 2016December 3, 2016 By travelsforchocolateIn fashion, UncategorizedLeave a comment

An iconic piece made famous, the motorcycle jacket, aka “the moto” has added a chic edge to our wardrobes for as long as I can remember. Favored by the most stylish fashionistas in the industry, moto jackets add instant style to any ensemble. Warning: instant bad-ass appeal is more than likely to come with the territory.

Shop my entire look with the link at the bottom of this post.

Stella McCartney Falabella Fringe Mini Tote Bag

Here’s some exciting news about this gorgeous watch by Nicole Vienna, they are offering 30% their entire website for the month of December. No discount code required

NYC BLANK Morning Suede Moto Jacket

Free People Bombay Tank

1.STATE Lacquered Twill Leggings

Stella McCartney Falabella Tote

BCBGeneration Caspienn Heeled Sandal

Nicole Vienna Soir N 79 Mesh Watch

Boss Lady

On October 24, 2016 By travelsforchocolateIn UncategorizedLeave a comment

There’s that great adage, “Dress for the job you want, not the one you have,” but that’s totally easier said than done. Who’s seen The Devil Wears Prada? Do you remember when Andy changed her entire wardrobe so that she got taken a lot more seriously, but unlike Andy, most of us don’t have access to the Vogue fashion closet (I would die if I did).

We also don’t usually have the budget to dress for the job we want, even though looking like a million bucks is a big deal. Dressing in a similar style as your boss also shows that you’re looking ahead in your career and are attempting to have more executive presence, a new term defined as the “wow” factor that makes great leaders stand out. As Sylvia Ann Hewlett would say “ Appearance is an extraordinarily powerful first filtering. It can get you knocked off the list in a second.”

So how can you dress for the job you want without going totally negative in your bank account?

Invest in a classic, wardrobe staple that can give you a lot of mileage. This includes a season-neutral trouser, a blazer, or pencil skirt. Stick to black, navy, and gray so that you can wear it with everything.

Look for statement jewelry pieces but remember that people want to see you, not hear you. So kill the clanky brackets and earrings. Save those babies for your best friends bachelorette party in Vegas.

Wear heels! Now I’m a flats girl all the way, but when I want to make an impact, it’s heels baby. It’s unfortunate, but there’s just something about heels that convey power. Research has suggested that a tall woman is considered more assertive, confident, richer, capable, successful, independent, and even more intelligent than their shorter peers. Now tall is not better than short (I’m a petite woman and proud of it), but the illusion of tall can be a benefit. You want to buy shoes and clothing that support that illusion. So break out that AMEX.

Last….Dont forget to wear a smile.